Your English Confidence Can Affect Your Career Depending On Whether You’re Spiraling Up Or Down With Your Confidence
Confident Non-Native English Speakers Vs Not Confident Speakers
Have you ever noticed how some people with accents speak with such English confidence that it seems to open doors for them, while others, despite their skills, feel held back by their speech?
Lack of self-confidence in English can create a reinforcing loop. When we doubt ourselves, it affects how we communicate, leading others to perceive us as less articulate—even when that isn’t the case!
Take this example: person A speaks with an accent but carries themselves with assurance. Person B, self-conscious about their speech, hesitates and stumbles. This isn’t about ability; it’s about perception. When you doubt your voice, it can impact how others hear you.
Are you Spiraling Up or Down with your English Confidence?
One of our students who is a very competent lawyer running her own successful law practice, came to us saying she felt that people didn’t take her advice seriously because of her accent in English. She spoke excellent English, but still she felt that because of her accent, she didn’t come across to some of her clients as professional and knowledgeable and wasn’t respected for her level of expertise. In reality she only had a very light accent in English. All she needed was a little work on her accent, and support to gain confidence in her ability to be clear, and how to speak and present with confidence.
After practicing this, the next time she had a client sitting in front of her, she reported that she immediately noticed a difference in how her clients responded to her.
Confidence in English makes a big difference.
Understanding how our brains process language can significantly enhance our communication skills. Research shows that effective language use engages multiple areas of the brain, including those responsible for memory, emotional response, and decision-making.
Key insights into English Confience:
Firstly Neuroplasticity and Language Learning: Our brains are adaptable, meaning they can reorganize themselves to improve language skills. This flexibility allows anyone, regardless of age or background, to learn and refine their English proficiency.
The Role of Mirror Neurons: These neurons help us understand and replicate others’ behaviors. When you listen to fluent speakers, your brain mirrors their speech patterns, which can aid in developing clarity and confidence in your own communication.
Cognitive Load and Clarity: Simplifying language reduces cognitive load, making it easier for your brain to process and retain information.
Clear communication not only benefits the speaker but also enhances comprehension for the listener, making for better interactions.
Self-doubt leads to nervous speech, which creates negative perceptions, causing fewer opportunities. And the cycle continues.
But here’s the good news! You can break this loop. Here are a few tips to help you speak English more confidently:
Tip 1: Practice regularly. The more you speak, the more comfortable you’ll become. Try reading out loud or joining a conversation group.
Tip 2: Focus on your message, not just your delivery. Remember, what you have to say is valuable—so share it with pride!
Tip 3: Practice Active Listening: Engage with others by listening intently. Pay attention to how they pronounce certain words. This not only improves your understanding but also helps you respond more effectively and naturally.
Tip 4: Slow Down and Articulate: Speaking too quickly can lead to confused communication. Practice speaking slowly to enhance clarity, allowing your brain to choose words carefully. Remember, fluent speech doesn’t necessarily mean faster. Slowing down also allows you to breathe better so you have enough air to pronounce longer words properly.
Tip 5: Expand Your Vocabulary: Regularly learn new words and phrases. A broader vocabulary allows you to express yourself more precisely, boosting your confidence.
And the last tip:Engage in positive self-talk. Discipline yourself to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. You are capable, and your voice deserves to be heard.
And remember, if you need additional support to speak English more clearly and boost your confidence, help is available. We have online training courses, Speech coaches to give you personalised guidance, and live group classes to support you to be clear and confident when you speak.
English confidence is a skill that can be developed. By breaking the cycle of self-doubt and embracing your voice, you can create new opportunities for yourself.
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